We hear about it everyday, we face it constantly in this world of sex-crazed animals. Because  we are exactly that, fiend animals on a long journeyed prowl. We want to fuck and suck and experiment our lives away, but how do we balance all of it?

And how do we non-single people deal with the harsh subject of fidelity that is  regularly lingering the bedside. And can we really blame one gender for cheating more than the other? Is it honestly fair to say that men (although their prestige history) are accountable for more mishaps in the marriage than women.

Trust me, I have heard my fare share of unnamed ms. someones sneaking out their homes to meet the nearby neighbor that lacks in a job and dignity. But then again, just today I heard two guys talking about what “ranking” he named the girl, yet he walks right up to his girlfriend which  undoubtedly is flaunting away her white-gold engagement ring.

For some reason girls tend to keep things more discreetly, (whether it is a smart idea or not) guys tend to get “caught” a lot easier, but let me not confuse you, girls and guys EQUALLY cheat. Like masturbation, girls do it too, and girls do it a lot with toys and lube, yet, we females tend to keep it much more on the low.

I sincerely say sorry to those men who have to deal with so much from their suspicious wives and girlfriends.  Because in this large crowd of sex maniacs are those rare loyal men that don’t cheat. These are the guys that have to deal with mistakes that the husband down the street made. This stereotype that men are cheating whores is widely misunderstood. Men are the cheaters that get caught, girls are the cheaters that make the word discreet seem like an understatement.

N.G.I.O.B’s makes your eyes need for adjustment and to clarify. These naked girls really make this naked photography thing seems beyond artistic.

“So here’s the story…
I was sitting on our front porch with a bunch of friends one night and one thing led to another and I ended up talking an old friend of mine into letting me shoot photos of her naked. Well, nearly naked. It was a huge step though. I’d been trying to get her to let me shoot her for years and somehow that night it finally happened.” This was straight from Phillip’s site Naked Girls In Our Bed.

These two lovely ladies are from his photo shoot in April, Tracey P & Jane Jett make for beautiful black and white photography. This is truly artistic work. To check out more of Tracey and Jane, click here.

Cast of the film at the 2007 eTalk Festival Schmooze, during the Toronto International Film Festival.

“Young People Fucking, also called Y.P.F., is a 2007 romantic comedy directed, written and produced by Martin GeroAaron Abrams. It debuted

at the 2007 Toronto International Film Festival. “Our generation makes an effort to separate love and sex,” says Gero. “They’re all trying to do this thing, and they’re all failing miserably … we’re saying, ‘Listen, people our age. This is really hard to do without being emotionally involved.’” -W.

This movie is actually very interesting, and very thought provoking. Although the title is very blunt, it doesn’t really give as much credit to the film as it should.

“Director Martin Gero and his co-writer, Aaron Abrams, outline their plan at the beginning. There will be five stories, involving The Friends, the Couple, the Exes, the First Date and the Roommates. With an admirable sense of symmetry, Gero follows these four couples (and a threesome) through six stages of f***ing, which he identifies as prelude, foreplay, sex, interlude, orgasm and afterglow.” – Roger Ebert

So if you’re passing by a Blockbuster or Hollywood Video, or if you even want to risk it and watch it “free” online, you guys should really check this film out. It’s pretty good.

My Google search bar pops up with the following; anal, lesbian, big cocks, small cocks, fisting, biting, hardcore, soft-core, etc. But I have no idea why this never came into my mind until recently…PORN BLOOPERS!

You expect porn stars to be flawless and God and Goddess of sex, yet you see them falling, farting, laughing, and sometimes letting go a certain bodily fluids that shouldn’t be revealed.

To us normal people, we get the chance to watch these sexual idols of ours and make believe that were them, or fucking them. Yet when we see their undoubtedly human way, it is unbearably funny. Porn bloopers are a great adult rated pass time, if your not watching regular porn at that time.

If you wan to visit one of the many sites

there is for porn bloopers this is one of them-

I hate talking about my personal sexual activity, but DAMN does it hurt!

I applaud you girls with the gift of mastering anal sex. No, no, wait! I fucking bow down to you. Because as many of us girls know, WOW, it’s not always easy.

Porn-stars with their magic tricks shoving gigantic dildos inside them, makes me feel as if I have accomplished nothing (not seriously).

It hurts my lower stomach just watching it. Like when a guy gets hit in the balls, he wraps himself up in fetal position because his stomachs starts to hurt.

So I figured since I can’t make the pain go away, and knowing us humans the curiosity of anal orgasms won’t go away, I have found the top 4 tips on making anal sex a bit more enjoyable. Hope it helps!

TOP 4 TIPS FOR ENJOYING ANAL SEX

-Sharon, Age 38

What tips can I offer on the subject of anal sex?

-First: I think that we as women need to discuss anal sex beyond and outside of the context of women being penetrated by men. This context is too narrow.

-Second: To enjoy it you need: lube, patience, the right lube, to feel safe, self-awareness, more lube, a willing partner, a patient partner, communication, knowledge of your partner, curiosity, and trust.

-Lube:
Lubrication is essential when you first experiment! If you are starting to explore this aspect of love making it is essential that both partners become familiar with the sensations of both giving and receiving this form of loving touch. By the way: not all lubricants are the same. I like sesame oil and Astro-Glide.

-Relax:
My second boy friend introduced me to anal play when I was 20. The first time I invited him in to my bed he rather gently put the pad of his thumb over my anus when he was eating me out. I was quite startled and momentarily fearful by the sensation at first. But he did not try to penetrate me and within a few of minutes it felt normal. He varied the thumb pressure a bit from time to time and he moved his thumb around a bit. I felt good. Then we changed position and his hands went elsewhere. Looking back this was the turning point for me. I felt safe when he touched me back there and everywhere else.

“Totally love your website. Besides that one condom thing I had mentioned about their life expectancy after they’re opened, you should include something on which lubes are healthier than others, like water based ones and how even though the spermicidal ones are good for obvious reasons, they’re made with a very abrasive chemical similar to draino and other cleaners. Maybe you can combine all of that into a preparation gear story thing and list some common products that are okay and others that aren’t. I took your Kara Sutra advice, and I HAVE learned some things.” – Kristen Kotowski

After reading Kristen’s comment, it really made me wonder a lot about which are healthy types of lubrication.  But then I kept thinking about all the other factors of ‘GREEN’ living and how would it be for a couple who has made the life altering decision to live ‘Green’. How can their sex life, reflect their way of life?

So after a lot of researching and comparisons, I found this one site that really made quick, to the point answers, that all earth lovers would definitely like to know about. 27 Ways to Create a Greener, Healthier Sex Life.

]]> http://thesextalk.wordpress.com/2009/09/04/go-green-with-sex/feed/ 0 Tellurian Writer http://thesextalk.wordpress.com/2009/08/29/do-we-really-fake-it/ http://thesextalk.wordpress.com/2009/08/29/do-we-really-fake-it/#comments Sat, 29 Aug 2009 19:32:56 +0000 Love Child http://thesextalk.wordpress.com/?p=185 Continue reading →]]> Oh man! The BIG question…do we (women) really fake having orgasms?

Well like anyone, faking it is completely possible and not always fun. Most times people fake it because at that moment having an orgasm is the last thing you want to do.

On the other hand, faking it be fun, but make sure not to make it a habit. Faking an orgasm is so funny to see, when a skilled women notices another women faking it. Here is a clip from When Harry Met Sally of Meg Ryan having the best fake orgasm EVER!

SO THE NEXT TIME YOU MEN THINK YOU KNOW WHETHER OR NOT SHE’S HAVING AN ORGASM, REMEMBER THIS VIDEO!

This is about a staff writer named Meghan Pleticha, who works for not only Nerve.com but also a magazine dedicated for modern day parents, Babble.com.

This is where she decided to do something brilliantly risky. Go topless in Central Park for all New York to see.

Under the law of New York City, “all chests are created equal: both men and women can go topless in public, provided you expose your breasts in a manner” “neither lewd nor intended to annoy or harass.”

Although it didn’t turn out exactly the way she had planned it, the day of topless sunbathing in Central Park was for a completely rational purpose. Men can do it, why can’t we?

Men don’t have to worry about the volition they might be breaking. They don’t have to worry if they are extremely hot and sweating and can’t let the fresh breeze past your breast. Equality is what all feminist are fighting for, being topless where men can be topless is completely logical.

So I bow down to you Meghan Pleticha for being brave and an active feminist of our modern day. Expose yourself to the world, and hopefully, with all our work into one, we can reach our goal. Boobs are completely normal, like man-boobs but prettier.

Most college students are aware of the main five factors about sex, but just in case you missed out on Health Class, here’s  the top five.

1. Sex can be dangerous.

2. You always need to use birth control when having sex and make sure to always “wrap it before you tap it”.

Condoms are really important, and by the time student reach college, the idea of STD’s and pregnancy is more than cramped into their heads.

3. Sex absolutely must be consensual. By this time, college students understand that sex must be something that two consensual adults must agree to engage in.

4. One-night stands can have many major repercussions. Although many one night stand occur on and off campuses across the U.S, it’s a must that college students know what may or may not happen when they have one night stands.

5. Last but not least, ALL college students know by now that SEX feels good and actually is very healthy. When all the precautions are taken, sex can be a very enjoyable and a very natural healthy thing to do.

Most college students do engage in many sexual experiences during their time in college. It’s like the dorms create a more experimental filled aroma that for some reason increases their curiosity levels.

But of course, it also might be all the college parties that might having something to do with it, since alcohol does make everyone become loose and most times much more sexual.

Whatever it may be, it is obvious that we young adults are ready to party and experiment. It’s not wrong as long as your playing it safe. Use condoms, birth control, be smart about who you’re f*%king, and have fun!

Now if you want to reach a true orgasm, you should definitely consider this vibrator.

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